Last night I bought a ticket for Naomi to go to Bali in March next year .... this is the only way that we get a real break from the "Auty" situation. Kaylia seems to be accepting the absence of one .... just not both.
When we're both away together during the day, Kaylia is fine with it .... but if her bed time routine is broken she has trouble. I suspect that if we both were away overnight she would stay awake till she was exhausted ... and then she would be in high anxiety when she woke. ...... and Naomi and I would not sleep for worry ... and for guilt about what we were putting her through. Plus guilt over the situation we had created for who ever was caring for Kaylia!
So any 'break' would be just the opposite!
Our little 'Bali breaks' are a good compromise. I go up on the coming Saturday for 4 days. Lots of work to be done. We're still working hard to get the villa ready for rental guests .... the trips aren't holidays! .... but they are good for "re-charging our batteries".
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